What’s Stopping You?

A Self-Exploration of the Feminine Balance.

We all have hopes and dreams. What’s stopping you from attaining them? A seemingly simple question. Notice your response. Notice your answers. What can this Wordsmythe teach you about the life you lead? The answer is, pay attention to the language that you use. The little words such as ‘just’, and ‘but’. Notice the words that come just after. They frame your motivations and help to provide comfort within your rationalizations. Comfort within your discomfort™.

Sure you could apply the meta-model challenge, yet if the words came out when others are around, you have set up a life frame where people will act and react to you. This is part of our human condition. This is far more pronounced and in many ways more hurtful for women of today.

Ladies, do you remember times when you felt a bit down? You may have purchased something new. Perhaps a blouse or shoes or dress? You wore it and felt great for a short time. This is an example of feelings resonating from the outside in. These are the most fleeting. Cable television shows focus on extreme change such as surgery in order to adjust the outside in hopes of changing the inside. I think this works far more profoundly from the inside out. When you consistently radiate self-love and confidence from your very core, profound satisfaction will soon be found in many other areas of your lives. How then do you alleviate your feelings when you feel less than you deserve? Too many women experience aspects of distraction in order to let go of those nagging feelings that stay with you just outside of your conscious awareness. You could change them if you were more aware of how they will limit and stop you from being the woman you were born to be.

These are some of the reasons that my wife and I developed something new, “The Core of Self-Acceptance for Women©”. We believe, and I think you will also, that accessories, worn on the outside, bring far greater reflection to a light when it shines brightly from within. Our mothers and our grandmothers looked to their mothers for inspiration. They may have had little according to today’s standards, yet they stood regally in their cause of nurturing and building solid relationships. Quietly negotiating as she insured the safety and contentment of first her family and then her community. A seemingly simple woman, dedicated to giving, creating and striving. All the while standing proud in her humble nobility. Who do we look towards today? Where else can you go and learn these important ways of behavior and to model the feminine?

Did you know that what you are saying to yourself is often worse than what you are saying on the outside? We’ll teach you both consciously and unconsciously too easily and elegantly tap into the force of nature that you already are. Imagine no longer having to question or doubt, but to grow into the healthy happy role models society currently craves.

Until next time, enjoy the flows of life.

Jeff Schoener
NLP™ Wordsmythe, LLC
888-847-3696

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